{"id":483,"date":"2025-12-16T15:41:17","date_gmt":"2025-12-16T14:41:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kjt-stage2.fachhandel-ehses.de\/conflicts-in-the-family\/"},"modified":"2026-03-30T15:38:54","modified_gmt":"2026-03-30T13:38:54","slug":"conflicts-in-the-family","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/en\/conflicts-in-the-family\/","title":{"rendered":"Conflicts in the family"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row][vc_column]\n\t\t\t\t<p class=\"rs-p-wp-fix\"><\/p>\n\t\t\t\t<sr7-module data-alias=\"konflikte-in-der-familie\" data-id=\"6\" id=\"SR7_6_1\" class=\"rs-ov-hidden\" data-version=\"6.7.40\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<sr7-adjuster><\/sr7-adjuster>\n\t\t\t\t\t<sr7-content>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<sr7-slide id=\"SR7_6_1-18\" data-key=\"18\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<sr7-bg id=\"SR7_6_1-18-1\" class=\"sr7-layer\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/konflikte_in_der_familie-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"konflikte_in_der_familie\"><\/noscript><\/sr7-bg>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/sr7-slide>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<sr7-slide id=\"SR7_6_1-19\" data-key=\"19\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/sr7-slide>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/sr7-content>\n\t\t\t\t\t<image_lists style=\"display:none\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img data-src=\"\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/konflikte_in_der_familie-1.jpg\" data-libid=\"502\" data-lib=\"medialibrary\" title=\"konflikte_in_der_familie\" width=\"0\" height=\"0\" data-dbsrc=\"Ly93d3cua2p0Lmx1L3dwLWNvbnRlbnQvdXBsb2Fkcy8yMDI1LzEyL2tvbmZsaWt0ZV9pbl9kZXJfZmFtaWxpZS0xLmpwZw==\"\/>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/image_lists>\n\t\t\t\t<\/sr7-module>\n\t\t\t\t<script>\n\t\t\t\t\tSR7.PMH ??={}; SR7.PMH[\"SR7_6_1\"] = {cn:100,state:false,fn: function() { if (_tpt!==undefined && _tpt.prepareModuleHeight !== undefined) {  _tpt.prepareModuleHeight({id:\"SR7_6_1\",el:[600,600,768,960,720],type:'standard',shdw:'0',gh:[600,600,768,960,720],gw:[2000,2000,1024,778,480],vpt:['-100px&#039;,&#039;-100px&#039;,&#039;-100px&#039;,&#039;-100px&#039;,&#039;-100px'],size:{fullWidth:true, fullHeight:false},mh:'0',onh:0,onw:0,bg:{color:'{\"orig\":\"transparent\",\"type\":\"solid\",\"string\":\"transparent\"}'}});   SR7.PMH[\"SR7_6_1\"].state=true;} else if(SR7.PMH[\"SR7_6_1\"].cn-->0)\tsetTimeout( SR7.PMH[\"SR7_6_1\"].fn,19);}};SR7.PMH[\"SR7_6_1\" ].fn();\n\t\t\t\t<\/script>\n[\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Things are tense at home&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h1|text_align:center&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;][\/vc_column][vc_column offset=&#8221;vc_col-lg-offset-1 vc_col-lg-10 vc_col-md-offset-1 vc_col-md-10&#8243;][vc_empty_space][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Are there times in your family when you\u2019d just like to disappear or run away? 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