{"id":3605,"date":"2021-05-03T11:02:31","date_gmt":"2021-05-03T09:02:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.kjt.lu\/advises\/"},"modified":"2026-03-11T10:48:27","modified_gmt":"2026-03-11T09:48:27","slug":"ideas","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/en\/ideas\/","title":{"rendered":"Advises"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Advises&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h1|text_align:center&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_tta_accordion][vc_tta_section title=&#8221;Tips against depressive moods&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1615817617121-156fa16b-31fa&#8221;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-15999\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-depressive-Verstimmung_Webseite_EN-1024x724.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"724\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-depressive-Verstimmung_Webseite_EN-1024x724.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-depressive-Verstimmung_Webseite_EN-300x212.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-depressive-Verstimmung_Webseite_EN-768x543.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-depressive-Verstimmung_Webseite_EN-1536x1086.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-depressive-Verstimmung_Webseite_EN.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Persistent lack of motivation, sadness or negative mood, no longer feeling pleasure and enjoyment with thing that usually brought you pleasure, troubles with sleep, agitation and inner stress, persistent rumination, thoughts that you can\u2019t avoid, trouble concentrating and feelings of anxiety; do you also feel like this?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">These could be the first symptoms of a depression. If some of these symptoms look familiar to you, its advised that you fix them as soon as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Here are some advises:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Try to <strong>structure your day<\/strong>, to program your tasks and activities, specially during holiday or vacation periods.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Physical exercise<\/strong> is important, preferably outside, out in the sun and fresh air.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Try to <strong>stay in touch<\/strong> with your friends, to exchange ideas and thoughts with someone else that will make you think about positive things that can distract you.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Do something good for yourself.<\/strong> Eat or drink something you love and enjoy it. Take a hot bath, read an amazing book, schedule a body massage\u2026 Be conscient.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Plan relaxation exercises<\/strong> (like autogenic training, progressive muscular relaxation, breathing exercises, \u2026) or <strong>exercises on focus and concentration<\/strong> throughout your day.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">&#8211; Create a \u201c<strong>Diary of Happiness<\/strong>\u201d by trying to remember of a good moment in your day, of a little moment of happiness, an instant of joy, of ease, and write it down every night before going to sleep. It doesn\u2019t have to be a perfect moment, it can be just a small thing; a beautiful snow flake you saw, a ray of sunshine that heated you, an observation, meeting someone, a word, a look, a thought\u2026 This way, you create a collection of beautiful souvenirs. When you are not feeling well, you can read your personal collection of nice and positive moments to feel stronger.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Sleep is important.<\/strong>If you struggle with sleep or you wake up during the night, try to focus on your breathing (try to prolong your breathing by counting it); try to imagine your favourite place using your five senses (what does it look like, what do you hear, what do you feel, what can you taste, what do you smell nearby?); Set your alarm in a way you can\u2019t read the time; try to count from 1 to 100, from 1 to 99, from 2 to 98, etc.; try to meditate or go on an imaginary journey (if you want to, using meditation\/guides for imaginary journeys you can find on the internet). If you cannot sleep at all, get up and open up the window, drink a nice hot mug of tea.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">&#8211; At the same time, each and every one of us has their own <strong>internet resources<\/strong>, much harder to access during times of crisis and stressful situations. It\u2019s useless to ask what has always helped in these situations. Like everyone has their own different needs, it\u2019s important to reflect on what you need yourself. Maybe what helps your friend, doesn\u2019t necessarily help you.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Ask for help<\/strong> when you see yourself having these negative thoughts that dominate you and that you can no longer control yourself. Don\u2019t be alone in all of this. If you want, call us or write to us. We are here for you. Together, we can reflect on what could help you and, if necessary, we can guide you.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=&#8221;Relaxing &#8211; What helps? How does it work?&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1615817617142-fc436864-df06&#8243;][vc_column_text]<span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Our day to day life sometimes requires too much of us. But our batteries are not charged times infinity. Your body tries to supply you with all the energy that you need, every single one of your organs work non-stop without you even realizing it. But sometimes, your body sends you small signs: \u201cBe careful, I need a break\u201d. It can transmit us a signal by showing tiredness or making it difficult for you to focus, to sleep, or you can also be easily angry and readily annoyed. The sooner you notice this and take care of it by taking care of yourself, the more easily it will work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><em>Balance is important, but how does it work?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">When you are in \u201caction\u201d, you do something constantly, you chase your current objective, you realize and do, you constantly inspire, but you don\u2019t let go. Your body needs a conscious break, a deep long breath is a necessity for your body\u2019s wellbeing, for your soul \u2013 let it go \u2013 create a distance from things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Your body needs a break.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Give yourself <strong>a day when you schedule nothing<\/strong>,or you have yourself a lazy morning, you relax with a good book, a delicious cup of tea, a bath or hot shower, a nice group game, and why not a great movie night in your pyjamas (not in front of a small phone or tablet screen), cooking something delicious, maybe a yin yoga class or a Nidra yoga class online, everything your heart desires and that relaxes you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">At the same time, <strong>exercise<\/strong> is important. Sports that help you train something are very useful in reducing stress. Sports like yoga and Pilates or a nice walk outside in the <strong>fresh air<\/strong>, a jogging or cycling help you find your inner balance. There\u2019s always something for everyone. Excellent guides, tutorials and videos are available online.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Distractions<\/strong>, a good remedy. Specially when you notice your thoughts keep circling round. Catch each one of your thoughts and write them down. In a way, you can then forget them for a moment and look at them again later if you so want to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Try to control your <strong>breathing. Exercises<\/strong>for this purpose will help you. Try to consciously practice a relaxing breathing (exhaling longer than you breath in).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Breathing exercises are very effective and will help you let it go for a moment and re-direct your thoughts to your breathing instead. You can find online a large inventory of guided breathing exercises. The principle is simple: pay attention to exhaling longer and inhaling for a shorter amount of time (you can start by doing this, for example).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Online, you can find several breathing exercises, just chose which one relaxes you better.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner offset=&#8221;vc_hidden-sm vc_hidden-xs&#8221;][vc_images_carousel images=&#8221;3159,3160&#8243; img_size=&#8221;large&#8221; onclick=&#8221;custom_link&#8221; custom_links_target=&#8221;_blank&#8221; speed=&#8221;4000&#8243; autoplay=&#8221;yes&#8221; wrap=&#8221;yes&#8221; custom_links=&#8221;#E-8_aHR0cHMlM0ElMkYlMkZ3d3cueW91dHViZS5jb20lMkZ3YXRjaCUzRnYlM0RXS0trRy1VSUcwQSUyQ2h0dHBzJTNBJTJGJTJGd3d3LnlvdXR1YmUuY29tJTJGd2F0Y2glM0Z2JTNEUk1OUUc4ZHRXcVE=&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner offset=&#8221;vc_hidden-lg vc_hidden-md&#8221;][vc_column_text]<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=WKKkG-UIG0A\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">BOX-BREATHING<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=RMNQG8dtWqQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">SEA RUSHING<\/a>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_column_text]<span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Relaxation techniques<\/strong> are useful in moments of tension, stress and pressure. Exhaling and letting it go is what needs to be done. Imaginary journeys, progressive muscular relaxation like Jacobson, autogenic training, sophrology, meditation, tapping techniques (also called \u201ctapotement\u201d, like EFT-PEP) are recommended. You can find exercise guides and explanations on the internet.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If you feel strong emotions such as <strong>wrath, inner aggression, annoyance<\/strong> are always you first reactions to something, try to exhaust yourself before the relaxation exercise (run really fast around the block; hit a pillow or scream; hit a virtual boxing ball with your first while exhaling; jump on the same spot; fictitious trapping of anger, slowly at first, and then faster and faster, \u2026).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Think about <strong>what\u2019s good for you<\/strong> (hot shower, hot bath, do something with your friends, paint, joke around, Lego, Sudoku, puzzles, reading, walking, jogging, swimming, sauna, a cup of tea, dancing, singing, listening to your favourite songs, \u2026) and try to schedule some <strong>time for YOURSELF<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">The important thing here is to take yourself seriously and to take care of yourself. You become also conscious of your own feelings and needs.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=&#8221;Panic attacks? \u2013 What can help?&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1615817660900-061e4dbd-b306&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-16001\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Panikattacke.-Was-hilft_-EN-1024x724.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"724\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Panikattacke.-Was-hilft_-EN-1024x724.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Panikattacke.-Was-hilft_-EN-300x212.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Panikattacke.-Was-hilft_-EN-768x543.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Panikattacke.-Was-hilft_-EN-1536x1086.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Panikattacke.-Was-hilft_-EN.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Human beings love certainty and tend to always want to know what is going on and want to avoid anything that remotely resembles a threat. We want everything to be under our control. When something isn\u2019t quite clear, when a feeling of loss of control sets in or when we don\u2019t feel generally in a safe place, it\u2019s normal to react with stress. Unfortunately, this happens sometimes. This can sometimes make us pay a large price or even force our limits. Sometimes the loss of control or anxiety is strong enough to trigger a panic attack.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">What to do when having <strong>a panic attack? <\/strong>It\u2019s useful to know exactly where in your body you feel for the first time the imminent panic attack (for example, \u201cit\u2019s like my throat closes\u201d, \u201clike a heavy rock over my chest suffocates my breathing\u201d, \u201clike something is hitting me in the head\u201d, \u201cmy heartbeat gets really fast\u201d, \u201cmy hands get wet\u201d \u2026). This way, you can be conscious of the impending attack a lot earlier and of yourself in this situation. You can try to keep calm before the panic attack starts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">When having a panic attack, try to control your breathing. You can briefly and consciously inhale (ideally through the nose) and exhale slowly (through your mouth, in a pout \u2013 as if you were whistling \u2013 in order to slightly slow the flow of air). Put some intensity on your exhalation because this encourages your body to relax. You can count while you are doing it. Try, most importantly, to prolong your breathing by counting 1-2 when inhaling, 2-3 exhaling. Maybe you will even count to 5-6 later.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">If you notice that you breathing becomes calmer and it\u2019s much easier to exhale slowly, you can also do a quick break after exhaling.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">However, if you notice that your panic attack starts really strong and violent, and you have issues controlling your breathing, you can also inhale and exhale a dozen times in a small bag made of plastic or paper; like this, you can see the movements of your breath and you are able to calm yourself simultaneously. After 10 breaths into the bag, breathe normally. (Repeat the breathing into the bag if you notice that you need another set of 10 breaths).<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=&#8221;Do you have times where you doubt yourself? How to strengthen your self-confidence!&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1615817663404-7eea1afe-0051&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-16003\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/SElbstvertrauen-EN-1024x724.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"724\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/SElbstvertrauen-EN-1024x724.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/SElbstvertrauen-EN-300x212.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/SElbstvertrauen-EN-768x543.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/SElbstvertrauen-EN-1536x1086.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/SElbstvertrauen-EN.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">You have the impression everyone else does things easily, everyone is so sure about themselves, they have always such an easy time talking, they always know what to say, they approach others effortlessly, they are welcome, they are popular, interesting people, and they don\u2019t need to put in a lot of effort to have good grades. You know\u2026 you are not alone feeling this!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Most times, it seems like these types of people have everything going on for them, easy, everything just falls on their hands, and they have interesting lives. We have a tendency to putting people on a pedestal and to compare our weaknesses to their strengths. Maybe there\u2019s people that make themselves appear positive and beautiful and happy on social media, but deliberately ignore the difficult and flaws of things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">We are all different, we have strong suits and weaknesses thus having different limitations and different strong suits.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Maybe it is a weakness for you to talk in front of other people without blushing, to be around people without feeling a ball stuck in your throat, to look and talk to a guy or a girl without them knowing that you heart is just beating heavily against your chest. You have all the necessary qualities to be able to do be relaxed and stressless, and this will help you feel more confident about yourself, surer about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Comparative and pejorative expressions such as \u201cit\u2019s so typical of you\u201d, \u201cdon\u2019t be so noisy\u201d, \u201cyou are so chaotic\u201d, \u201cyou are crazy\u201d \u2026 are, unfortunately, gathered and branded onto our memory in a way that we start believing in that ourselves and create a path in life where difficult situations get heavy on our trails due to us blocking constantly. Eventually, our self-confidence cracks. Good news is, it can be rebuilt and reinforced.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Our colleagues from Rat Auf Draht in Austria have gathered a beautiful collection of \u201cadvises to boost up your self-confidence\u201d:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rataufdraht.at\/themenubersicht\/tipps-info\/selbstvertrauen-push-tipps\">https:\/\/www.rataufdraht.at\/themenubersicht\/tipps-info\/selbstvertrauen-push-tipps<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">Instead of comparing yourself to others, think about the good things YOU have done. Our colleagues at Pro Juventute in Switzerland have created this amazing video about the subject:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=MBvGFYjsjBY\">https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=MBvGFYjsjBY<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">A healthy self-confidence will help you evaluate, in a realistic way, your strong and weak suits, this way better preparing you for your goals. People that have low self-confidence underestimate themselves constantly and can\u2019t, tragically, realize what they are capable of. They don\u2019t dare to follow their dreams and chase their goals. This would be a shame, wouldn\u2019t it ?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">A healthy self-confidence gives you a positive aura that is inviting and interesting to others. It&#8217;s fun and feels good to be yourself!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia, palatino, serif; font-size: 12pt;\">You are unique and that is a good thing !<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=&#8221;8 tips against fear&#8221; tab_id=&#8221;1626943580172-005b6061-b1fe&#8221;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;&#8221;]<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-16012\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-Angst-Webseite-EN-1024x724.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"724\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-Angst-Webseite-EN-1024x724.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-Angst-Webseite-EN-300x212.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-Angst-Webseite-EN-768x543.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-Angst-Webseite-EN-1536x1086.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.kjt.lu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Tipps-gegen-Angst-Webseite-EN.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here are 8 tips that can help you to better cope with your anxiety. The aim of these tips is to get back or maintain control over you and what is happening.<\/p>\n<p>It is important to know that not all exercises are suitable for everyone. That is why we would like to invite you to try out these exercises first, so that you can create your own \u201cemergency box\u201d or \u201ctool box\u201d with your own methods that suit you best. Perhaps you may find or even have methods that have always been helpful to you in stressful situations, such as a certain song, a certain audio book, doing yoga, having a walk in the forest, doing a relaxation exercise, jogging &#8230; Anything that helps to relieve yourself of worries is permitted. It&#8217;s about doing specifically what is good for you!<\/p>\n<p>As you can imagine, it will be helpful to practice the methods regularly. That way, a routine can be established and you can come back to it more quickly when a &#8220;crisis situation&#8221; is looming. You will see that the more familiar you become with an exercise, the sooner the exercise will be effective.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Breathing meditation<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>This is about becoming aware of your own breath. First simply observe how you breathe in and out.<\/p>\n<p>Then take a few deep breaths in through your nose into your belly and out again. Pay close attention to how your chest and belly rise and fall &#8211; up and down. When you start this exercise, take a few deep breaths at the beginning, otherwise you may feel dizzy and uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>After that you can let your breath flow again without controlling or influencing it.<\/p>\n<p>You will notice over time that your breath will calm down again and your anxious thoughts will dissolve.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong>Calculation and counting techniques<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you like numbers, this might be just the thing for you. It&#8217;s about engaging with something completely different in order to consciously stop your thoughts. There are many different methods. Either you count backwards from 100 or 50 in steps of five or three: 50, 47, 42&#8230; Or you count 3&#215;3, 4&#215;4, 5&#215;5&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You can also count like this: 1-100, 2-99, 3-98, 4-97, 5-96, 6-95&#8230; so you always count in parallel from 1 to 100 and then count backwards from 100 at the same time. If you get lost, start again from the beginning: 1-100. You will see that no other thoughts will come up again. This could also help with falling asleep when you can&#8217;t get your thoughts to quiet down.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong>ABC of wellbeing<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you are more of a fan of words, this might be a more suitable method for you. This is about thinking of one or more positive words in alphabetical order: e.g. A for awakeness, B for beautiful flowers, C for chances, D for duvet &#8230; This immediately creates positive, relaxed and beautiful images in your mind that interrupt the way you\u2019re thinking.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong>Poems, song lyrics <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you prefer poems or lyrics, check out which ones you particularly like and which give you a good feeling again and again. Memorise them so that you can always bring them out when you need them. Beautiful texts may calm, relax, motivate, inspire or distract you or put things into perspective.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><strong>Saying stop<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Really simple, isn&#8217;t it? But unfortunately that isn\u2019t always the case. With the help of small rituals, you can help yourself to implement saying stop. 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